Every woman wants a happy home, a good marriage, loving husband and children. Below are things that every woman should know that can improve her marriage.
1. Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, and loving language.
How do you do that? Before you “react” stop for however long you need in order to calm yourself.
Benefit to you: You’ll get his attention, his cooperation, and his respect.
Why it works: Men need clear, concise ,unemotional language to be able to hear you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely
2. Look for ways that he makes you happy and let him know regularly. Some examples might be: “It makes me happy that you like solving problems for me,” or, “You make me feel wonderful when you tell me you love me,” or, “It makes me happy that you help with the kids and they love it.”
Letting him know you’re happy makes him feel successful. He needs that and you can give it to him.
Benefit to you: He’ll start looking for more ways to make you happy.
Why it works: If you’re not happy he feels like a failure and trust me, men hate to fail.
3. Appreciate him often, especially those things you know he likes about himself, things he’s proud of.
Examples could be: “I really appreciate what a nice home you’ve been able to give us, thank you so much,” or, “I love how strong you are. or,“ The way you make love to me is so perfect.”
Benefit to you: He’ll fall in love each time you do it and you’ll make him feel like a hero.
4. Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-you kisses tell him you really appreciate what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me” kisses tell him you want him.
Benefit to you: He’ll feel more connected to you and look forward to being with you.
Why it works: Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate and intimacy is what makes your marriage special.
5. Flirt with him, Be playful, tease him, talk sexy once in a while, gaze into his eyes with a “come here,big boy” twinkle, offer sexy kisses and physical touches.That means flirting, being playful, being sexy and sensual, and remembering why you fell in love in the first place.
Remember this, when the sexual side of your relationship dies, you become roommates. Make sure your sex life is alive in your marriage. It is very important because these are things every woman should know about marriage.
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